I’ll admit to being a bit looser these days about what I’ll post to Escamoteurettes, though I probably have more unfinished drafts that may never see the light of day than posts you’ve actually seen here.
In the beginning, I made a conscious decision to stay away from much of the current events type stuff. It’s not that I’m not interested or — heaven forbid — that I don’t have an opinion. I just wanted to stick to a certain path and, from the occasional email or comment, what I’ve written has been met with some degree of interest, if not agreement or approval. That makes me happy enough.
Every once in a while, though, talking about talking does some good.
Since the beginning of web logging, lo these many, many years ago, bloggers have talked about blogging right along side whatever topic sparked their initial interest. Bloggers have also blogged about other bloggers. I’ve made use of the word community more than once; this is, in part, what I mean.
I know there are plenty of magic blog readers who are probably on the fence about joining the collective and starting up their own blog. Please, start your own blog. You do not have to have a particular reason, you do not have to defend your reason (or lack of), and you don’t have to worry about what other people think about what you write.
Just write, post it, and let the chips fall where they may.
Sometimes you’re going to write something that challenges people and they respond (this is generally in the comment section of your blog.) I’ve often found the best part of a blog is in the comments section. It’s where readers feed back their opinions of what they read, and writers clarify their point(s) or, occasionally, even change their opinion entirely.
On the other hand, if you can’t stomach dealing with people who not only disagree with your opinion but also want to discuss it with you, turn off the comment section of your blog. While not illegal, it is terribly off-putting. And sometimes readers will respond when they no longer feel the love by seeking love elsewhere.
Sometimes, though, something else will occur. Sometimes someone will read what you wrote and it will give them an inclination to write about what you just wrote. How cool is that?
Want an example? I wrote this as a direct result of reading an excellent post by Magician X. In part, he wrote:
I never thought conformity would be an issue in doing a magic blog. I should’ve realized though that there are always going to be those who are established and those who aren’t, or those with power and those without. Some choose to exercise the power they have in a way which promotes individual expression. As an example, take a look at the blog roll at Escamoteurettes and you’ll see the link to this blog. Escamoteurettes is about as different from this blog as it’s possible to be, and I would imagine that John doesn’t always agree with what I say. A while back he wrote a piece defending Gospel magic, while readers here know I have a less than favorable opinion of it. So why link to me? Maybe because he’s open minded enough to see beyond his own preferences as to what a blog can or should be. I think I read somewhere before where he stated that he leaves it to the reader to separate the wheat from the chaff in regards to the blogs he links to. He’s not trying to dictate his criteria to others. He’s saying here’s what’s out there, make of it what you will. He’s confident enough in what he’s doing to not feel threatened by those who have a different interpretation.
Amen, brother. (Ha, ha.)
But please go read the whole thing, because he does a good job of noting a very unattractive personality disorder you will, occasionally, run across: the insatiable desire to control others.
How do some people in the blogging world do this? The blogroll, mainly. Here, Magician X hits the nail squarely on the head when it comes to my own blogroll.
I do link to many sites, the authors of which sometimes post opinions with which I find myself diametrically opposed. While I don’t demand a link back, it certainly is appreciated. Even if it’s a link from a post from time to time.
(I’ll insert a note that the other day I stumbled upon a rather obvious solution to my desire to link to blogs like Magic Enigma, Magic Mafia, Pagliacci — blogs which are often not safe for work, a consideration brought to my attention on more than one occasion. Yes, I know, having a NSFW section of the blogroll seems rather obvious to me, too. Now it does, anyway. I’m getting old; give me a break.)
Back to opposing opinions. You know what? They’re opinions, not dogma. Not law. Often not fact (although they may be based on fact.)
I don’t feel threatened by opinions that are far removed from my personal universe. In fact, I happen to enjoy rubbing elbows with diverse opinions — they help me learn about other people. It’s not that I will change my mind substantially. But reading diverse opinions is not about me finding like-minded brethren, it’s about widening my understanding and appreciation for what makes other people different than me.
But that’s often at the root of what irks some of the control freaks who seem to hold the position that you either agree with them, or you agree to change your point of view, or…well, you know how it goes sometimes.
(No, I don’t really understand it either.)
Ignoring someone, especially when they’re doing their level best to have a discussion with you and present their opinion, neither minimizes the importance of their opinion, nor does it make the opinion just go away. Sometimes ignoring the opinions of others exacerbates a problem.
Sometimes it gives them the impetus to start their own blog.